WE ARE AWESOME and FOR THE REST, EVERY TRICK IS ALLOWED
Friday, April 6, 2012 § 2 Comments
“The best you is you with more self-discipline”
BEING THE BEST YOU
When it comes to making ourselves more disciplined, every trick is allowed:
– Writing down goals
– Setting (artificial) deadlines
– Creating rewards
– Creating penalties
– Telling friends
– Setting up or joining a team
– Making a routine sacred
Jonathan Haidt (http://www.happinesshypothesis.com/) describes our brain as made up of a rider on top of an elephant.
The elephant represents our instinctive brain – developed over millions of years and common with much of the animal kingdom – it allows us to catch a frisbee mid-air, while holding a Budweiser in the other hand, yelling “Wazzzzzupp” and meanwhile breathing and conducting all other essential functions. The elephant is awesome: People are Awesome
The rider represents the more recently developed capabilities of the brain, giving us humans complex language skills, allowing us to form abstract thoughts and be self-aware. While our abilities far exceed those of animals, our mental capacity for analytical processing is still quite impotent. It’s easy to imagine a science fiction world where our ability to solve math problems and play chess is magnitudes better than our struggling to compute 7 x 14 brains now. The rider is a pretty clever dude, but only a little speck on the awesomely mighty elephant.
When we sit in front of a piece of candy, the elephant has long-established reasons to “go for it”. Evolutionary speaking, taking in calories has long been our friend. Being fat is only a recent problem. The rider can recognize the problems with the candy eating. In a straight up match of strength with the elephant though, the rider doesn’t stand a chance. Only with clever trickery and distraction can the rider steer the elephant away/to something else.
Conclusions:
1. The elephant and the rider are both you.
2. Don’t ever think you can get rid of the elephant or beat it.
3. Where instincts are your best guide, let ‘em rip.
4. In matters where instincts guide you poorly, have the rider steer the elephant lovingly and playfully with every trick in the book.
FITTING IN SOME INNOVATION
Wednesday, April 4, 2012 § Leave a comment
Fitting in with the tribe was a life-saving necessity for our evolutionary ancestors. Still today, in many instances, it’s a decent strategy to avoid getting kicked off the team, fired from the job, ostracized by the posse or disowned by family.
It is not a strategy for innovation, personal expression, personal growth and personal fulfillment.
Maybe most importantly, making fitting-in one’s guide can have tragic moral consequences when we are in the wrong environment.
WNYC Radiolab did a fantastic piece on the Milgram experiment. You can listen to or download the podcast here and I highly recommend it:
http://www.radiolab.org/2012/jan/09/.
I will write more about it in the coming days.