“YOU ARE AN SOB AND I AM DONE TALKING TO YOU”
Thursday, April 12, 2012 § Leave a comment
Bringing a bunch of people together that agree on everything can be fun, but we know that it’s not what will make the team win the innovation prize. On the other hand, bringing a group together that is at odds with each other appears to bring about a lot of friction and little to show for it.
So when putting our team together at work or at play, we often opt for the easy-hopping-consenting-team [pink quadrant]. How many of your friends have a different political leaning, or view on food, spending money, religion, raising children, making money, gay-marriage and Israel-Palestine?
But, agreeing on things going into discussions doesn’t create a learning and growth opportunity. Can we have discussions that are fun and challenging?
Yep! Take shared values + different views points!
If we feel comfortable with each others’ values, our different approach, background and knowledge become an asset, as we exchange each others’ different insights and develop new thoughts. [blue quadrant]
If we distrust each others’ values, the different viewpoints become a threat and the discussion cannot become constructive.
Conclusion: Establish shared values and motivations and assemble groups with vastly different points of view.
A+
Thursday, March 8, 2012 § Leave a comment
As you go through your day, how much does your happiness depend on external recognition?
Our need for affirmation is a powerful instinct. We are tribal beings, interdependent with our surroundings.
If we are in an environment with poor values, this instinct draws us to make poor decisions. We succumb to peer dynamics to smoke, use drugs, lie, laze around…
Who sets the scale that you are measured on in your environment – professionally and personally?
In a group of assholes,
the biggest asshole gets an A+
Business Buddhism 