THE LIMITING FACTOR RIGHT NOW
Tuesday, April 24, 2012 § Leave a comment
The limiting factor for us to act wisely is mindfulness. Not age, not experience, not hair-color, not opportunity, not education, not religious affiliation, not title and authority, not luck, not gender, not skin-color, not yoga certifications, not how little or much we’ve been hurt in the past.
“There is no path to wisdom, wisdom is the path.” Siddhartha Gautama, a.k.a. the Buddha.
In every moment we choose our response to our circumstances. Wisdom is not a stage we can get to and then hang out in it as if lying in a hammock. It’s an every moment practice. No need to wait for different circumstances, resources or power. Nor do we need to wait to develop into a more mature and better person. In this moment you choose not to click on the stupid-ass link on Huffington Post about Jennifer Anniston wearing a very short dress – those never live up to my expectations, but instead you are reading this supremely nourishing blog. It requires our attention, right now!
WE ARE AWESOME and FOR THE REST, EVERY TRICK IS ALLOWED
Friday, April 6, 2012 § 2 Comments
“The best you is you with more self-discipline”
BEING THE BEST YOU
When it comes to making ourselves more disciplined, every trick is allowed:
– Writing down goals
– Setting (artificial) deadlines
– Creating rewards
– Creating penalties
– Telling friends
– Setting up or joining a team
– Making a routine sacred
Jonathan Haidt (http://www.happinesshypothesis.com/) describes our brain as made up of a rider on top of an elephant.
The elephant represents our instinctive brain – developed over millions of years and common with much of the animal kingdom – it allows us to catch a frisbee mid-air, while holding a Budweiser in the other hand, yelling “Wazzzzzupp” and meanwhile breathing and conducting all other essential functions. The elephant is awesome: People are Awesome
The rider represents the more recently developed capabilities of the brain, giving us humans complex language skills, allowing us to form abstract thoughts and be self-aware. While our abilities far exceed those of animals, our mental capacity for analytical processing is still quite impotent. It’s easy to imagine a science fiction world where our ability to solve math problems and play chess is magnitudes better than our struggling to compute 7 x 14 brains now. The rider is a pretty clever dude, but only a little speck on the awesomely mighty elephant.
When we sit in front of a piece of candy, the elephant has long-established reasons to “go for it”. Evolutionary speaking, taking in calories has long been our friend. Being fat is only a recent problem. The rider can recognize the problems with the candy eating. In a straight up match of strength with the elephant though, the rider doesn’t stand a chance. Only with clever trickery and distraction can the rider steer the elephant away/to something else.
Conclusions:
1. The elephant and the rider are both you.
2. Don’t ever think you can get rid of the elephant or beat it.
3. Where instincts are your best guide, let ‘em rip.
4. In matters where instincts guide you poorly, have the rider steer the elephant lovingly and playfully with every trick in the book.
LOVE IS A VERB
Monday, March 26, 2012 § Leave a comment
Loving your work is the best recipe for loving your work.
Enjoy the week!
“STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES”
Thursday, March 15, 2012 § Leave a comment
– Forrest Gump
Smart is as smart does
Wise is as wise does
Kind is as kind does
Loving is as loving does
What ya gonna do?